The Liberation Project
Everything You Need to Cut the Bullsh*t and Build Relationships That Actually Work
Welcome to The Liberation Project! This isnât just any programâitâs a game-changer for navigating the wild terrain of love, sex, and relationships.
Drawing from nearly a decade of experience with people from all walks of lifeâfrom those facing life imprisonment to survivors of addiction and relational violence, I've distilled everything Iâve learned into this intense, no-holds-barred program. We tackle everything from deep-seated relational traumas, shame and attachment wounds to relentless cycles that feel impossible to escape.
Get ready for a transformative journey. This program is designed to challenge you, push you out of your comfort zone, and guide you towards genuine, fulfilling connections. You might find it intense, but donât worryâIâll be right by your side, taking care of you every step of the way.
Letâs liberate your love life and ignite your inner revolution.
Phase 1: Exposing Core Wounds and Patterns
unpack how the hell you got here so you can figure out how the hell to get out
We begin by diving deep into your life history to uncover relational wounds and subconscious patterns.
This foundational work prepares us for the next phase of transitioning from insight to behavioral change and lays the groundwork for reconstructing your love journey from a place of understanding and empathy.
During this phase, we dig into what's keeping you stuck so that you have the foundation for making powerful change.
Phase 2: Transforming Your Relational Dynamic
decode your relationship drama and face what's in front of you
Now that weâve dug deep into your relational history, it's time to get real about what's happening in your current relationshipsâwhether youâre single and dating, in a committed relationship, or moving on from past ones. For those in partnerships, we'll dive into joint sessions to tackle this together.
In this phase, weâll break down the patterns and dynamics driving your relationship struggles and implement strategies for change. Get ready to shift from repeating old patterns to creating a fresh, dynamic rhythm in your relationships that truly works.
Path 3: Deepening Intimacy
reclaim desire, passion and raw pleasure
In this phase, we focus on reigniting intimacy, pleasure, and joy in your relationship through dynamic relational-building strategies:
In this final phase, weâre all about igniting raw desire and unleashing your true self. This stage is dedicated to rediscovering your inner fire and setting the stage for exhilarating, fulfilling relationships. We will use a hands-on approach to play, exploration of erotic fantasy, and rediscovering your sensuality. If single and dating, there will be opportunities for in-person or virtual surrogate dates (depending on location and availability).
In the final sessions, weâll solidify your progress, celebrate your newfound vigor, and lay out a plan for maintaining that fire and intimacy in all your future relationships.
"Although still a work in progress, I feel my work with Alexandra is helping me be better about not taking uncalled-for responsibility for other people's emotions and behaviors. I spend less time ruminating over the validity and impact of my expressing a need or requesting something, because I am more confident in the fairness of my request and feel less compelled to help manage the person's emotional reaction beyond communicating with kindness and being open to a response."
"Therapy with Alexandra has really helped increase my self-awareness around my communication in my relationship. I've also seen a big improvement in my self -worth, self- confidence and really knowing my value and what I bring to relationships. I've also felt more empowered as an entrepreneur and in my work as a social worker in my local non-profit..."
"I have gained such clarity in what I need in a romantic relationship. I also was taught how to show up for my partner in a way that holds space for him but is also safe for me. From the very beginning, my partner and I felt so safe with Alexandra. She is genuine and uses empathy and tact when helping us see some tough truths about our roles in our relationship struggles. She guides us to solutions that fit our unique needs..."
"As a survivor of sexual assault and narcissistic abuse, Alexandra has helped me believe that recovery is possible, and that what I'm experiencing is normal given what I've been through. She has helped me deepen my trust with my partner, and see my healing journey as something we can tackle together..."
"Alexandra is amazing at what she does. I immediately felt comfortable with her since our first session. She gives great feedback/insight while also being direct and helps you really think through things logically while acknowledging your feelings...."
"My relationship with my husband has improved significantly. Even in just subtle ways, being able to check myself before reacting abrasively or noticing when I'm going into an old pattern I don't want to repeat (which has happened less and less)...."
"Nos ha ayudado a trabajar el trauma, a entender sus causas y su sanaciĂłn, a ser empĂĄticos y tolerantes. Su experiencia con casos relacionados nos ha ayudado a nuestro caso, genera un clima de confianza, nos brinda todo lo que sabe para poder apoyarnos..."
Logistics
The program is month-to-month and phases are completed within the time frame it takes for you to move through the process.
The program includes:
- Biweekly 90-min therapy sessions: Engage in the therapeutic process to transform your personal growth.
- Personalized Content: Receive tailored resources and educational materials that address your unique needs and goals.
- Ongoing Support: Enjoy continuous guidance and feedback in-between sessions to help you navigate challenges and keep you on track.
- Tailored Activities: Engage in customized exercises and activities designed to enhance your relational skills and build genuine connections.
$600/month for individuals
$800/month for couples
+300/month for each additional partner (throuples, quads, polycules)
Payments via debit/credit card
Alexandra Bossy Mendoza
your go-to therapist for sex, love and chaos
I'm Alexandra, your go-to therapist for navigating the wild world of sex, love, and all the beautiful chaos in between. Iâm here to help you untangle the mess, ditch the shame, and dive deep into your most authentic self.
Whether youâre stuck in patterns of unhealthy relationships, grappling with intimacy issues, or just tired of feeling stuck, weâll work together to find the freedom, connection, and joy youâve been craving.
With a blend of real talk, unfiltered honesty, and a little bit of humor, I create a space where you can explore what truly matters to you. Weâll look at your stories, shake up your assumptions, and challenge the rules youâve been living byâso you can finally start living on your terms.
If youâre ready to get real, get close, and start loving fullyâmessy parts includedâIâm here for it.
âš pronouns: she, hers
đ„ 1st gen Mexican-American
đ bilingual English/Spanish
đ§ neurodivergent af
đ affirmative of lgbtq+, ethical non-monogamy, kink/bdsm, and people in sex work industry
đ« racial justice/anti-capitalist/feminist framework
đđœ read more about my story here
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